What is it?
• It is controlling, threatening behaviour between partners, former partners
or people in intimate family relationships.
• It is the intentional and systematic abuse of power and control.
• It can be physical, verbal, emotional, financial, sexual and psychological.
• Sometimes the abusive behaviour can be all of these things
Who experiences it?
• Domestic abuse affects people irrespective of age, gender, ethnicity,
sexuality, disability or social background.
What are its effects?
• It can result in death, maiming, physical injury, emotional strain, mental
health problems, fear, anxiety, isolation and a loss of self-esteem.
• It damages children who have to live with it and witness the way it affects
people they love.
• It shatters lives and destroys relationships.
What can be done about it?
• If you, or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, it can help
to talk to someone about it. No one has the right to abuse you.
Carers notice things.
They are often a point of contact and a source of help.
• If you think someone is experiencing domestic abuse, you may be able
to find the opportunity of speaking to them on their own and asking if they
have any fears or concerns about their safety.
• Try to be direct and start by saying something like:
“I’m worried about you because…….”
• BELIEVE what they tell you and try to LISTEN, rather than judge or criticise
or interrupt.
• Encourage them to think about their safety and that of their children.
• Reassure them.
• Adults who are unable to take care of themselves or protect themselves
from significant harm or exploitation may be helped and supported under
the Adult Protection (Safeguarding) Procedures.
• Adult Safeguarding Unit 0161-212-4323
FURTHER INFORMATION CAN BE FOUND AT:
www.refuge.org.uk www.womensaid.org.uk www.mensadviceline.org.uk
There is a 24 hour NATIONAL HELPLINE NUMBER: 0808 2000 247
Women’s Aid OUTREACH 0161 736 0737
Victim Support and Witness Service 0845 30 30 900
Men’s Advice Line 0845 064 6800
Lesbian and Gay Foundation 08453 30 30 30 / 08452 60 44 60